They say that men will treat their partners differently than they would a ‘professional’ in bed. Although women may not go to think in exactly these terms, guess what? Many women also think that ‘someone else’ may be able to fulfill their wilder side than their current boyfriend/husband.

It all boils down to this: you get too comfortable with each other. In the course of a relationship, you get to know each other really well and you think that to be wild in the bedroom does not blend well with the ‘loving partner’ image you have now with her. Nothing can be further from the truth!

If you’re a bit wilder in bed than you are out of it, you will both be fulfilling your sexual fantasies. Women may love gentle, loving men as their partners but just adore a bad boy in the bedroom! And as for men, how does that song by Usher go again… “we want a lady in the street but a freak in the bed”. Says enough.

Getting Out of Your Bedroom Comfort Zone

First of all, this is about going just a bit out of your bedroom comfort zone; not about, say, backdoor sex (unless that’s what you two want to try of course). So, how do you go about being a tad wilder in bed? Let us count the ways.

Pull her to you. One of the mildest things you can do that will have a really thrilling effect on her is if you pull her – hard – towards you. It shows you want to be in command. It shows you can be rough. And it conveys the message that she is just there to pleasure you. I know that’s a lot of messages for a slightly rough act but don’t worry, she’ll think of it that way.

Consume her. After some heavy (and I mean really heavy!) foreplay, go down and perform cunnilingus. However, don’t just do this for a few seconds and move on. Women hate that because it gives them the message that you just had to do it because it’s part of the ‘routine’ (sort of like having to pass by the bakery because it’s on the way home). No; this time, go down there with one single purpose: make her come.

This may shock your partner especially if you haven’t paid too much attention there before. In fact, once she feels really hot she may even be the one to try and pull you off (she’s not used to you making her come via that, you see). Well, whatever she does, stay there. You have a mission remember? Now don’t budge until you’ve achieved it!

Try something completely different. When it comes to positions, try something completely out of the ‘routine’. Don’t do something too wild that you scare her though. For instance, don’t ever try bondage without pre-discussing this with your partner!

Instead, just apply a simple variation to what you guys normally do. For example, instead of woman-on-top facing you, try reverse cow girl (woman-on-top but facing your feet). Here’s another hot one: reverse cow girl being milked, which is woman-on-top, facing your feet, but you have one leg bent. So as she straddles your member (her body slightly turned sideways), your bent leg is grazing her clitoris.

As for the missionary position, you can apply a lot of variety on that one too. Put a pillow under her bottom and then hold her legs (by the ankles) straight up in front of you as you enter her. Keeping her legs together as you move makes for a tighter fit.

Don’t be afraid to make a sound. Most men do not make a sound when they come. I guess they think it’s unmanly. However, you don’t need to emit a high-pitched scream to show her just how hard and magnificent your climax is. You can just groan a bit louder and harder. Once your woman hears just how much pleasure you’re getting from coming, you can bet she’ll be doing her darn best to really goad you on!

Start by making small changes. You won’t believe how hotter your sexual relationship will be by just showing a wilder side to you. Enjoy yourselves!
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