Not all fantasies make good real life experiences. As hot as having a threesome may be, you need to consider your partner and weigh the pros and cons of reality, like the fact that convincing her to go along with it may be fun while you’re having the three-way but could also lead to the end of your relationship since the jealousy factor is almost always a possibility no matter how into it you may both be.

And while we’re on the subject of threesomes; trying to get your girl to go along with it also comes with the risk of her requesting to have a threesome with you, her and some other guy. Is that something that you’re prepared for? Tit for tat could very well be expected if she agrees to be a part of YOUR fantasy come-true.

If you want to make some of your fantasies a reality, then you’ll also need to consider a few other things, like: your partner’s feelings if you’re in a relationship, who will willingly participate and what risks might be involved.

You may think the idea of group sex is hot, but do you have a group of people that you can go experiment with while being discreet and safe? You may get all hard at the idea of bondage, but BDSM can be scary for some people and a real turn-off so you’ll need to really talk to your partner and make sure that your trust is in tact before giving it a go.

As for sex in public or taking someone by force; you really need to consider the legal ramifications! Yeah, I said legal! Sex in front of an unwilling audience could lead to a public indecency or misdemeanor charge and as for living out a rape fantasy with the wrong person; you could wind up in jail for a long time! (‘No’ may really mean ‘no’ when you’re in the midst of what YOU think is some hot role-playing!)

Pick your fantasies and participants very carefully before you head off to make them a reality. Don’t get me wrong; sexual fantasies can be great in real life too, but there are some that may be best left in your head for you to enjoy during a self-pleasure fest, sex or on the commute to work. You just never know when one may come back and bite you in the ass after the orgasm-induced daze has worn off, so tread carefully my friend.