I’m talking about is how they complain about sex.That’s right…sex with you.They’ll talk to their girl friends about it, they’ll think to themselves about it, and she might even hint to you about something you’re doing (or not doing) while you’re both having sex. But chances are, she won’t tell you exactly what’s on her mind about you!

Here are some of the top complaints women make about men:

Complaint #1: “You never think about how I feel!”

Why is she thinking this?

Well, take a look from her perspective. She see’s you having a climax, and then, the sex session is over. How would you feel if she had an orgasm, and then suddenly lost interest in sex, and roll over and sleep?

You would probably feel the same way.What you need to do is to focus on her pleasure first. By doing this, she’ll change her thinking from “he’s selfish” to “he’s so generous!”

Over deliver in bed and place her pleasure about yours.

Complaint #2: “…It’s over already?”

She might be rolling her eyes in disappointment if you climax a few minutes (or seconds!) after penetration.You’ve made her hot and horny, and once the main course begins, it ends!

There are things you can do to last longer in bed. Some solutions include desensitizing sprays and creams. Personally, I found that if you give her an orgasm (or three!) before you start
having sex, she’ll still be happy even if you finish early. In her eyes, you’re the generous lover who put her pleasure FIRST, and finishing early isn’t a problem.

Complaint #3: When You Fall Asleep After Sex

After a man has an orgasm, they release a chemical called prolactin. And this chemical makes them sleepy!Yes, it is natural for a guy to sleep after they have sex, but you need to think about how she feels…

She wants to feel wanted and cared for.  If you sleep right away, she’ll feel ignored.What can you do? Well, just a few minutes of post-sex “after play” can do wonders for your relationship. Take the time to cuddle, kiss and caress before sleep.

Complaint #4: You’re Rushing Into Sex

Often heard yet overlooked is the fact that women need foreplay. In fact, it makes sex more enjoyable for her, and she can have an orgasm quicker if you take the time during foreplay.

What’s work best for me is to focus on foreplay until she has a female orgasm.  Believe me, she’ll love it.

Complaint #5: You Don’t Know What You’re Doing In Bed

If you don’t know what to do in bed, then this could lead to a lack of variety in the bedroom.  What does this mean to you? She’ll be bored of sex.Once she’s bored of sex, she’ll be inclined to “get it over with” or…worst..skip it altogether.Don’t let this happen!

What you need to do is make a commitment to yourself to learn more sexual techniques to make her feel better, and ultimately, enhancing your sex life.Don’t Be Like Most Other Guys

It’s unfortunate that most guys will spend more time and money on their academic education than their sexual education. They will spend thousands of dollars and hundreds of hours taking courses they don’t want to learn. Yet won’t spend a dime on improving their sexual educational.Don’t let this be you!Invest in your sexual education, and give her the gift of being the best lover she ever had.