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09 Jan 2009 Sexual Feng Shui
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Feng Shui, the Chinese belief system for human improvement, has a lot to say about improving love and relationships. Right from finding the right kind of partner to enter your life to having wonderful children with them, Feng Shui has tips galore. Here we will concentrate on sexual Feng Shui which can be used to considerably enhance your relationships in life.

First of all, we need to understand that a relationship is sexually enhanced only when there is a considerable amount of love and passion there. Most of the tips of bringing about sexual Feng Shui harmony in your life that are mentioned below actually speak about how you can bring love in your life.

1. Prepare Your Room.

It is absolutely important that you disseminate the right signs if you want your current love life to last forever. For one, Feng Shui speaks about using the right kinds of colors in the room. Red is a very auspicious color; it is also the color of passion. But do not make the room too red; use red only for effect or it might indicate anger instead of love.

Also, pls. remember that Feng Shui can be a very personal practice. For instance, red may well be the general color for love but it may actually clash with your ‘stars’. Often your and your partner’s birth dates need to be considered so do read up on this first before you start changing in your room to red.

2. Organizing the Bed.

The bed is the place where most of the action takes place, right? Feng Shui dictates that you need to place the bed as far from the door as possible because that means stability. Place the bed near the window, but never directly below it. Having a strong head post for the bed indicates a stable relationship. Do not keep mirrors facing the bed because that indicates a third eye in your marriage, which means there’s a possibility that one of you may become unfaithful. You can also invest in sensual bedding materials.

One important point – beds carry the energies of the persons that have slept in them. So, if someone with whom you have had a not-so happy relationship has slept in the bed, you need to replace it to give your current relationship a good head start.

Also remember to keep both sides of the bed equal. It is ideal to keep the bed in the middle of the room with the head side propped against a wall so that both partners have equal ease in entering and getting out of the bed. This makes for a harmonious relationship.

3. Set the Right Sensual Mood.

The sexual act can be greatly enhanced with the right kinds of colors, lights, sounds and smells. Feng Shui is definitely in accordance with this. Place scented candles in your room with mood lighting for a wild night of passionate sex. Floral scents are always considered to be great. For sounds, you can use soothing music. The kind of music that gently lulls you to sleep when alone is considered to be best musical accompaniment when making love, according to Feng Shui beliefs.
4. Keep Distractions Out of the Bedroom.

We usually clutter our rooms with a lot of distracting things, but that is a definite no-no in Feng Shui. The bedroom must be kept as clean as possible if the vibes of love are to course through it. Keep out the television and the computer, two of the most distracting electronic items in a bedroom. Even if you are not using these, they can suck up a lot of the positive energy from the room, making you feel quite drained.

Sexual Feng Shui is a completely different art, in which people endeavor to make their sexual lives more fruitful by making a few changes in the environment that they are used to. You an also follow these tips and then see how they ignite the much-needed passion in your relationships.