Here’s why:

They want to be touched in a way that makes them feel good.

And…when she’s aroused, certain parts of her body CRAVES
attention…and is begging to be stimulated.

And to a woman like yours attention to the
RIGHT AREAS at the
RIGHT TIME with the
RIGHT TECHNIQUES can lead to the ultimate reward:

So even when you’re having sex and pounding away at
her…she’s not ready to have an orgasm with you through
penetration.

And this is why having sex right when she gets wet doesn’t
work.

For you, ANY attention to your private parts is good attention.

But women simply aren’t built like you and me.

Women need to be prepared by you to in order to have an orgasm.

Let’s take sex for example.

In my last newsletter, we talked about
what probably happens when you make love with your partner.

You most likely start having penetrative sex once she gets wet.
….and then after you change positions a few times, and you
have an orgasm (while she doesn’t), this “love-making” is
finally over.

And this is exactly what she doesn’t want. (and…in the long
run, you wouldn’t want this either).

When this happens, she’s thinking, “EVERY TIME I make love
with Waseem he’s making himself feel good by having
SEX RIGHT AWAY he’s not giving
ME THE ATTENTION I NEED to feel good

…I think I’ll have SEX with Waseem LESS OFTEN”

And guess what? You’ll probably notice
that you and your partner have a little
pattern going on.

Every time you 2 make love
you most likely do the same little “ritual”:

1. Brief foreplay
2. Sex
3. You’re satisfied, and feeling relieved
4. She’s not satisfied, and feeling like this
“love-making” thing is unfair to her.

(This is how most couples I know “have sex”)

In fact, because she’s not having an orgasm like you do, she
starts to think that sex isn’t fun, and…eventually,
“love-making” gradually happens less often.

So, every time you’re making love in this way, do you know
what she’s thinking after?

“Hey…this is no fair - HE’S CUMMING AND I’M NOT”

….And the sex becomes less and less.

And this is why most people never have a sexual relationship
where BOTH the guy and girl have orgasms.

It’s because the guy is giving the wrong attention (with his
penis) to the wrong areas (inside her vagina) with the wrong
techniques (penetrative sex) at the wrong time (right after
foreplay).

Fortunately, this is *really easy* to fix.
It’s all laid out for you in easy, step-by-step training system
in my new course,

“All About Hot Sex Ebook:
A Step-By-Step System to Show You How to Give Women Orgasms
….Without Dangerous Drugs, Pills or Lotions”

Not only do my training methods work great for all women young
and old, they’re also really fun for you and your partner.

Men, to experience and share great sex with your wife, be sure to use some of these sexual foreplay tips. There is an art to foreplay. Don’t just grab and squeeze, or head straight for her privates.

Foreplay is not about…
1. Kissing
2. Breasts and
3. Intercourse …. all in five minutes!

In actuality, foreplay is really about courting and wooing your wife’s sensual responses and sexual arousal.

Before we get into the tips and suggestions, let’s review the all important basics of foreplay:

1. Foreplay is part of the preparation phase of lovemaking.
2. Foreplay is focusing on helping your wife come to sexual arousal.
3. Foreplay must not be rushed. Spend at least 20 to 30 minutes on foreplay.

Okay, let’s get to the “mechanics”of foreplay…

Sexual Foreplay Tips to Use BEFORE You’re in the Bedroom

• kiss her gently in public
• touch her face and stroke her hair
• tell her you love her
• hold hands or put your arm around her in public
• tell her she’s beautiful

Tips to Use When WARMING UP!

• slowly start undressing her
• give her tender kisses on the lips
• gently stroke her face
• take time to give her a full body or shoulder massage
• gently caress all parts of her body (not just the typical “sexual” parts)
• whisper and tell her how beautiful she is and how good she feels
• kiss her softly all over her body
• interlace your fingers with hers
• caress her tummy (don’t tickle though!)
• touch and fondle her
• keep talking about how much you love her (unless you’re kissing)
• try to discover new touch points on her body that are sensitive and bring sexual arousal
• keep looking at her

Foreplay Tips to Use as Things GET HOT!

• begin more passionate kissing (don’t underestimate this tip!)
• start faster stroking and caressing of her body
• include full body embracing
• start oral stimulation such as licking and sucking
• begin to caress her inner thighs
• continue telling her all the ways you think she’s gorgeous and how much she excites you
• squeeze and stroke her body

FINAL Sexual Foreplay Tips

• move your hands from the top of her body all the way down until they reach between her legs
• listen to your wife’s verbal cues… is she feeling discomfort or pleasure?
• use lubricant to begin stroking her vagina and clitoris
• gently massage her outer vaginal lips
• pay attention to your wife’s body language; is she beginning to respond?
• ask your wife to tell you what feels good to her
• reach up to her breasts
• kiss her passionately all over her body
• massage her inner thighs
• stimulate her clitoris and/or G-spot until she lets you know she’s ready for intercourse or ready to orgasm
• don’t forget to keep talking to her; tell her how much you enjoy her body

Using these foreplay ideas will bring great benefits to you and your wife’s sexual relationship including:

• increased awareness of your wife’s body and how she responds
• great orgasm experience for both you and her
• closer emotional intimacy as you focus on your wife’s sexual needs

So, remember:

1. Start Slow and Gentle
2. Speak Lovingly
3. Don’t Rush
4. Use Lubricant
5. Better Discover How She Responds

One of the biggest complaints you hear from women is that they don’t get enough foreplay. They feel particularly slighted when they spend ten minutes doing something for their man, like oral pleasuring, and then he reciprocates with thirty seconds of the same for her. Here’s a great way
to level the playing field.
Also, if your woman is shy about telling you exactly what she wants, this makes it easy for her to show you.

Here’s What You Need:
One egg timer (the hourglass is a little more romantic; but the kitchen “dial” timer will do).

Here’s How You Do It:

Get your woman naked. You, too. Tell her that you would like her to do whatever she wants to you for three minutes, and that you’re going to do the exact same thing to her for the next three minutes. Start the timer. Pay attention to what she’s doing to you and exactly how she’s doing it. If she pleasures you orally, is she doing it hard or soft? If she massages you, where and with how much intensity is she doing it? Make mental notes of all of these things for the next three minutes. Then, when it’s your turn, try to duplicate what she did as precisely as you can.
Get in three or four rounds of this before you move on to intercourse — and don’t be surprised if she chooses to do something as simple as holding you in her arms for the entire three minutes. This technique has the ability to teach you more about what your woman really wants than all the “chandelier-swinging” feats combined.