Here’s why:

They want to be touched in a way that makes them feel good.

And…when she’s aroused, certain parts of her body CRAVES
attention…and is begging to be stimulated.

And to a woman like yours attention to the
RIGHT AREAS at the
RIGHT TIME with the
RIGHT TECHNIQUES can lead to the ultimate reward:

So even when you’re having sex and pounding away at
her…she’s not ready to have an orgasm with you through
penetration.

And this is why having sex right when she gets wet doesn’t
work.

For you, ANY attention to your private parts is good attention.

But women simply aren’t built like you and me.

Women need to be prepared by you to in order to have an orgasm.

Let’s take sex for example.

In my last newsletter, we talked about
what probably happens when you make love with your partner.

You most likely start having penetrative sex once she gets wet.
….and then after you change positions a few times, and you
have an orgasm (while she doesn’t), this “love-making” is
finally over.

And this is exactly what she doesn’t want. (and…in the long
run, you wouldn’t want this either).

When this happens, she’s thinking, “EVERY TIME I make love
with Waseem he’s making himself feel good by having
SEX RIGHT AWAY he’s not giving
ME THE ATTENTION I NEED to feel good

…I think I’ll have SEX with Waseem LESS OFTEN”

And guess what? You’ll probably notice
that you and your partner have a little
pattern going on.

Every time you 2 make love
you most likely do the same little “ritual”:

1. Brief foreplay
2. Sex
3. You’re satisfied, and feeling relieved
4. She’s not satisfied, and feeling like this
“love-making” thing is unfair to her.

(This is how most couples I know “have sex”)

In fact, because she’s not having an orgasm like you do, she
starts to think that sex isn’t fun, and…eventually,
“love-making” gradually happens less often.

So, every time you’re making love in this way, do you know
what she’s thinking after?

“Hey…this is no fair - HE’S CUMMING AND I’M NOT”

….And the sex becomes less and less.

And this is why most people never have a sexual relationship
where BOTH the guy and girl have orgasms.

It’s because the guy is giving the wrong attention (with his
penis) to the wrong areas (inside her vagina) with the wrong
techniques (penetrative sex) at the wrong time (right after
foreplay).

Fortunately, this is *really easy* to fix.
It’s all laid out for you in easy, step-by-step training system
in my new course,

“All About Hot Sex Ebook:
A Step-By-Step System to Show You How to Give Women Orgasms
….Without Dangerous Drugs, Pills or Lotions”

Not only do my training methods work great for all women young
and old, they’re also really fun for you and your partner.

There’s no doubt about it. Men love to receive oral sex and for the most part, women do love to give oral to their men. So what if your partner is not too keen on giving you oral sex? Does that mean you need to beg for it all the time? Not at all…

How to Make Her LOVE Giving You Oral Sex

Be Clean
For the most part, if a woman does not like giving oral sex then it’s a hygiene issue. Hold on! Before you start protesting, consider this. Sure, you bathe every morning but by the time you come home to your lover, surely you have visited the men’s room a couple of times at least and maybe even perspired a bit. Even those ‘little’ things can be conducive to your aroma down there. Keep in mind that your manhood has been ‘locked up’ all day and the exact minute you pull down your drawers may not be the best time for her to go down on you. So what to do?

Take a shower! It’s the easiest and cheapest way to ensure you smell clean and fresh down there. If you’re right smack in the middle of foreplay then simply suggest taking a sensual bath together!

You Are What You Eat
In the TV show Sex and the City, there’s this very popular episode where one of the characters has an issue swallowing her lover’s cum because it was ‘funky’.

Now, you may say that you are not at all forcing your woman to swallow your cum but you do emit some wetness of your own during oral sex you know. It’s called pre-cum and if it’s funky too you can bet that your lover will not be too enthusiastic to give you oral.

Also, come on, you KNOW you want her to at least try and swallow it even once so it’s in your best interest to make everything easy for her to choose to do just that.

So, if your cum is funky, why is that? Most likely it’s your diet. If you love to eat food with a lot of spices in it or like garlicky food, then chances are your cum will be ‘funky’. If you chug down cups of coffee, then your cum may have a bitter taste too. To change all this, simple change your diet.

Try to incorporate more fruits like kiwis, berries and pineapple into your food intake to change your cum from ‘funky’ to ‘sweet nectar’.

Of course, you can also incorporate certain edible things during oral sex to sort of disguise the taste of your cum; for this purpose, liquid chocolate, whipped cream, edible lube, and other come to mind.

Avoid Making Oral a ‘Movie Sex’ Moment
Contrary to what you see in adult movies, most women do NOT actually like it if you shove your manhood down her throat. It can be quite painful you know! So be gentle and let HER be in control of just how far down she wants you to go.

Think of Her Comfort Too
If women take their time to reach a climax, men can sometimes take forever too though oral sex. And although your lover may be willing to see it through till you reach your orgasm, she might not do so simply because she’s uncomfortable!

For instance, Jean (real name withheld for privacy) once told me that she and her lover like to have showers together which of course ends in her kneeling down and giving him oral. She loves doing it but she can’t do it long because it hurts her knees!

Anyway, her lover thought she just doesn’t like to give him oral and really wanted to experience that with her. Suffice it to say that after this issue was cleared out, they found out together that the best – and most pleasurable – position for them was to have him lying in bed while she lies on her stomach and gives him oral. For ‘variation’ they do the 69 too every now and then! For more spine tingling and soul satisfying sex positions and information, visit ALL ABOUT HOT SEX

Feng Shui, the Chinese belief system for human improvement, has a lot to say about improving love and relationships. Right from finding the right kind of partner to enter your life to having wonderful children with them, Feng Shui has tips galore. Here we will concentrate on sexual Feng Shui which can be used to considerably enhance your relationships in life.

First of all, we need to understand that a relationship is sexually enhanced only when there is a considerable amount of love and passion there. Most of the tips of bringing about sexual Feng Shui harmony in your life that are mentioned below actually speak about how you can bring love in your life.

1. Prepare Your Room.

It is absolutely important that you disseminate the right signs if you want your current love life to last forever. For one, Feng Shui speaks about using the right kinds of colors in the room. Red is a very auspicious color; it is also the color of passion. But do not make the room too red; use red only for effect or it might indicate anger instead of love.

Also, pls. remember that Feng Shui can be a very personal practice. For instance, red may well be the general color for love but it may actually clash with your ‘stars’. Often your and your partner’s birth dates need to be considered so do read up on this first before you start changing in your room to red.

2. Organizing the Bed.

The bed is the place where most of the action takes place, right? Feng Shui dictates that you need to place the bed as far from the door as possible because that means stability. Place the bed near the window, but never directly below it. Having a strong head post for the bed indicates a stable relationship. Do not keep mirrors facing the bed because that indicates a third eye in your marriage, which means there’s a possibility that one of you may become unfaithful. You can also invest in sensual bedding materials.

One important point – beds carry the energies of the persons that have slept in them. So, if someone with whom you have had a not-so happy relationship has slept in the bed, you need to replace it to give your current relationship a good head start.

Also remember to keep both sides of the bed equal. It is ideal to keep the bed in the middle of the room with the head side propped against a wall so that both partners have equal ease in entering and getting out of the bed. This makes for a harmonious relationship.

3. Set the Right Sensual Mood.

The sexual act can be greatly enhanced with the right kinds of colors, lights, sounds and smells. Feng Shui is definitely in accordance with this. Place scented candles in your room with mood lighting for a wild night of passionate sex. Floral scents are always considered to be great. For sounds, you can use soothing music. The kind of music that gently lulls you to sleep when alone is considered to be best musical accompaniment when making love, according to Feng Shui beliefs.
4. Keep Distractions Out of the Bedroom.

We usually clutter our rooms with a lot of distracting things, but that is a definite no-no in Feng Shui. The bedroom must be kept as clean as possible if the vibes of love are to course through it. Keep out the television and the computer, two of the most distracting electronic items in a bedroom. Even if you are not using these, they can suck up a lot of the positive energy from the room, making you feel quite drained.

Sexual Feng Shui is a completely different art, in which people endeavor to make their sexual lives more fruitful by making a few changes in the environment that they are used to. You an also follow these tips and then see how they ignite the much-needed passion in your relationships.

Fantasies are daydreams. Imaginary visions. Whimsical speculations. Wishful thinking. Everybody fantasises at some level. If you’ve ever imagined what you’d do if you won the lottery, you’ve used fantasy.

Fantasy is a fundamental part of human nature. We see active imagination as healthy in children (watch them playing and you’ll see them lost in a world of their own) but something adults should grow out of. Most people never do, however. Even if we manage to suppress our imagination during the day, all those unconscious passions emerge while we’re sleeping.

Sex generally starts in the brain. So an active imagination can mean you’re ready for sex before anything physical has happened. Therefore, desire is heightened and arousal is much quicker.

Some people find an active fantasy life can add novelty to a long-standing sexual relationship. This can be particularly helpful if your partner is not as sexually adventurous as you are.

But conversely, if you find it embarrassing to experiment in bed, fantasy offers an opportunity to give your imagination free rein and to play out roles. It can be used as a practice arena where you can build confidence before embarking on something new.

In psychosexual therapy, fantasy is often used to block out negative thoughts. If you find during sexual encounters your mind wanders to unhelpful images or thoughts, fantasy can help you to refocus on your sexual pleasure.

One of the biggest complaints you hear from women is that they don’t get enough foreplay. They feel particularly slighted when they spend ten minutes doing something for their man, like oral pleasuring, and then he reciprocates with thirty seconds of the same for her. Here’s a great way
to level the playing field.
Also, if your woman is shy about telling you exactly what she wants, this makes it easy for her to show you.

Here’s What You Need:
One egg timer (the hourglass is a little more romantic; but the kitchen “dial” timer will do).

Here’s How You Do It:

Get your woman naked. You, too. Tell her that you would like her to do whatever she wants to you for three minutes, and that you’re going to do the exact same thing to her for the next three minutes. Start the timer. Pay attention to what she’s doing to you and exactly how she’s doing it. If she pleasures you orally, is she doing it hard or soft? If she massages you, where and with how much intensity is she doing it? Make mental notes of all of these things for the next three minutes. Then, when it’s your turn, try to duplicate what she did as precisely as you can.
Get in three or four rounds of this before you move on to intercourse — and don’t be surprised if she chooses to do something as simple as holding you in her arms for the entire three minutes. This technique has the ability to teach you more about what your woman really wants than all the “chandelier-swinging” feats combined.

Lie on your back with knees bent and slightly apart. Feet should be flat on the floor and arms at your side. Inhale, clenching your abdominals and buttocks and lifting the pelvis until your back is straight. Take care not to arch your back. Breathe as you hold the position for at least 10 seconds. Exhale as you lower your body and repeat the exercise.

After you complete your lifts, try a few pelvic bounces, an exercise that can “evoke powerful sexual feelings, As with the pelvic lift, knees are bent and slightly apart. Your palms should face up. Inhale and lift your pelvis just slightly off the ground. Then, exhale and let it down so your lower back bounces gently against the floor. Experiment with variations. Your goal is to feel a sense of openness and release.