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14 Nov 2008 Learn to Read a Woman’s Body Language - Dating Guide For Men
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When a woman is attracted to you, she says it beyond words. Look for both words and body language. All her body parts say something, and if we do not know what they mean, we are missing out. Look at what her eyes say, what her arms say, what her legs say and so on.

What is she doing with her arms and hands? She may be playing with her pen, meaning that she is nervous. When a woman is nervous in front of a man, that is a good sign because that means she has some feelings for him. Is she folding her arms? This is a bad sign. It shows disinterest and she is closing herself on you. It also means that she does not mind being rude to you (that is a put off!). If you see this, better end whatever you are doing abruptly and excuse yourself. There is no use wasting time on that woman.

If she is interested, her legs should face you. If her legs are faced outwards, away from you, that might mean she is not interested, and may feel like she does not want to engage in the conversation any longer. Think of a nice way to end the conversation early and excuse both parties.

What does hair-flipping mean? That she is hair- conscious? When a woman does so, this means she wants attention. That is also a sign of interest you can look out for.

Now that you have learnt how to read the signs, you know better now when she should continue to spend time with her, or just plain give up and look for anything. Clinging on to a rotting relationship is the obstacle to finding a new one.

14 Nov 2008 “Attention All Facebook And MySpace Users…
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Transform Your Computer Into a Seduction Machine!

A lot of guys ask me… Can I poke a girl on Facebook to start a conversation?  Here’s the short answer… NO!

Sure, it’s a cool little tool to use on your friends… but for picking up beautiful women you barely know or don’t know AT ALL on Facebook?  Not a chance!

Poking a girl (or cyber hugging, kissing, etc.) is pretty much useless… I mean… beautiful girls probably get poked more than the Pillsbury Dough Boy on Facebook!

And just as often, they press the “remove” button to get rid of those annoying pokes from desperate guys.  I saw one of my hot girlfriend’s Facebook account and my jaw dropped.

She literally had dozens and dozens of guys poking her on a regular basis.  Her e-mail account was filled with notices of guys she didn’t know poking her.

“I don’t even have time to get rid of those!” she tells me… boy, was she annoyed!

Poking a girl isn’t unique or funny… nor does it convey any value or induce any amount of attraction.

Really… nothing beats a good, solid, well-thought first message that conveys a LOT of value without sounding too cocky or arrogant… and that COMPELS her to message you back.

Typically, especially on Facebook, this can be tough.  At least girls on online dating websites ARE looking for guys…

But surprisingly, building rapport with a good-looking chick on Facebook is easier than you think!

There are a few key ingredients in a first message that you really need to have.  Listen carefully, here… because the first message is probably going to the most important message… or definitely one of the most important.

One of the key ingredients that your first message needs to have is a strong purpose.  No, telling a girl that you barely know on Facebook that she’s cute isn’t a STRONG purpose.  It’s a rather weak one.

And no… asking her to “webcam” with you isn’t going to work, either!  Too many guys do that.  It’s way creepy if you haven’t figured that one out yet…

A strong purpose can range from a very intriguing open-ended question to a silly little remark regarding her profile picture.  No, a question like “How are you?” just won’t cut it. That may work in real life if you convey strong body language, but online, it must be much deeper… more thoughtful.

You really need to know how to push her curiosity buttons. You need to make her WANT to message you back.

I mean, you can even make a sly little judgment about her… something like… “Hey, you look like you’re on Facebook ALL the time…”

This will make her want to message you back.  She doesn’t want you thinking that she’s a computer nerd that has no life… so she’s going to be compelled to message you back and correct your initial perception of her.

Really, it’s quite a simple mechanism that you can exploit.

Oh yeah, and remember… spelling and grammar is always important.

If you want to have all the tools to build rapport with girls on Facebook FAST, you have to check out my brand new course that I just released that tells guys, step-by-step, exactly how to pickup beautiful girls on Facebook.

You’ll never have to leave the house again to pickup girls… not that you SHOULD do that… but at least you’ll know how to. For the days you’re feeling lazy and you wanna get laid…